A Thumb and a Prayer   25 comments

Tim Shey has slept in a lot of haystacks in his life.

Not to mention boxcars, abandoned vehicles and old barns.

For most of the past 12 years, Shey has been travelling the United States with only a backpack and a thumb … And a little faith in a benevolent friend.

“I call it the hand of God,” he says, referring to the way that everything always seems to work out for him no matter where he goes, who he meets or how he gets there.

“A lot of really profound things happen on the road,” Shey says. “Time and time again you find yourself broke or almost broke and someone picks you up and they buy you a hamburger, or you might get an odd job. It’s neat how things are put in front of you … It’s obviously a gift.”

Shey’s father was a veterinarian who used to follow the wheat harvesting crews throughout the Midwest in the 1940s and 1950s. It was from his father that Shey learned about the possibility of a life on the road through stories of his experiences hitchhiking.

“I was raised with a positive view of hitchhiking,” he says.

Later, in the 1970s, when Shey was working in a lumber yard, one of his buddies told stories of hitching coast to coast in only three weeks, which renewed his childhood interest in the road life.

Shey eventually got out on the road, hitchhiking around through the late 1980s.

In 1989, he started attending classes at Iowa State University, majoring in English literature with a supporting field of journalism.

After graduating in 1995, Shey took the LSAT’s and applied to a number of law schools. No one accepted him.

“Obviously I was not meant to be a lawyer,” he says, “so the Lord impressed my heart to quit and just hit the road.”

So, in 1996, Shey threw a few things in his backpack, stuck out his thumb and began a journey that has brought him through 39 states and into the lives of hundreds of strangers.

“Even though I get tired of hitchhiking, I’ve met a lot of great people and it’s strengthened my faith,” he says. “A lot of great things have happened on the road … Things happen and it’s like ‘Wow, that was the hand of God.’ I mean there’s no way I could have planned that. It’s just amazing what happens on the road.”

One thing Shey has noticed in his life on the road is the generosity strangers are willing to extend to a person in need.

Once when he was travelling through Pennsylvania soaking wet in a downpour, he happened into a pharmacy to pick up a few items and got to talking with the pharmacist.

After talking for a while, the pharmacist offered Shey the dry spot on the sidewalk under the shops awning as a bed.

Shey accepted and set up his sleeping bag.

During the night, the police confronted him, telling him to move on. He asked if they would call the pharmacist to check his story. After speaking with the pharmacist, they bid him a good evening and went on their way.

And, it seems, more times than Shey can remember, he’s been offered a couch to sleep on by perfect strangers, or given a little bit of cash by a church’s congregation to keep him going.

In addition to the kindly assistance he receives from strangers, Shey sees a lot of, what he would describe as, divine providence – benefitting both him and others.

It can manifest itself in simple ways, like the night he was walking south out of Jackpot, Idaho [Nevada] and came upon an abandoned boxcar in a field. He went inside and found a dining room table and a wood stove. Shey built a small fire and sat at the table to eat a simple meal consisting of a hot dog he was given earlier in the day.

It can also come in very profound ways, in which he almost feels like a tool of the Lord.

One night, Shey was thumbing for a ride in Sioux City, Iowa. A fellow picked him up and didn’t say a word. Shey asked him where he was headed.

“I don’t know,” the driver replied.

“All the red lights went on and I thought ‘Maybe I shouldn’t be in this car,’” he recalls.

Shey asked him what he meant by that, and the driver anxiously and emotionally explained that he had just lost his job and had been kicked out of his house and had the police called on him by his wife who thought that he was a drunk.

The driver told Shey he was thinking about killing himself.

“I said, ‘Don’t do that. God loves you and he’s got a purpose for your life,’” Shey says.

At that point, the driver began weeping.

Shey spent a long time that night, riding and praying with the man who eventually decided to head for a local rehab center.

“The guy said, ‘I don’t pick up hitchhikers. I knew I was picking you up for a reason,’” Shey says. “Things happen for a reason, let me tell you, it’s just amazing.”

There have been some scary experiences for Shey, however, in his years on the road. Although – strangely – they always seem to end in a positive way.

One night in New Mexico, a passenger with “crazy eyes” in a car that picked him up tried to stab him. The driver scolded the passenger and apologized to Shey.

He offered to feed him dinner, which Shey – a little shaken – declined. The man apologized again and gave him some money for food. The man with the crazy eyes also chipped in with a buck or two.

The worst thing that has ever happened to him, says Shey, was in upstate New York.

A fellow picked him up and offered him a bed for the night at the “Christian community” he lived in up in the Catskill Mountains.

Shey was a little uneasy due to some strange scripture that the driver was quoting.

Within five minutes of arriving, Shey says, he knew that he was in a cult.

“Why am I here?,” he thought to himself.

During a strange fellowship ritual after dinner, Shey met a man who seemed interested in his hitchhiking.

“Put your trust in God,” Shey told him.

Later that evening, a group of men tried to convince him to join their community. Shey was not interested.

The next morning, it was announced that the man Shey had told about hitchhiking the night before had escaped.

Shey got the feeling he should probably do the same and headed for the door, where he was confronted and told that he had to stay by the man who had originally picked him up.

“I’m not a physically violent man,” Shey says, “but if that guy had touched me I would have decked him into next week. You will not make me a slave of any cult. I’d rather be dead … The gospel is freedom. It’s liberty. You’re free to receive it or free to reject it.”

Mostly though, Shey maintains that his experiences on the road have been positive. He does feel though as if that chapter of his life may be coming to a close.

In 2000, Shey wrote a manuscript about his experiences on the road. He sent it off to a publishing house and it was rejected.

Over the next few years, he edited it; making some changes and removing about 20 pages.

Then, hitchhiking out of Helena one day, a driver told him about a publishing house in Maryland that he might want to try.

Shey, who carries the manuscript files on a flash USB drive that he wears around his neck, e-mailed the story to them from a public computer in Idaho.

The company accepted his book in less than 24 hours.

“I said, ‘Now what is this?’ Is this some sort of joke or something?,’” Shey says.

But he met with the company’s representatives and signed a contract on Sept. 12 of this year.

Two weeks ago he approved the final proofs and is now just waiting to approve the cover design.

Shey’s 120-page autobiography, “High Plains Drifter,” could be available in stores and online as soon as December.

Now he’s interested to see the reactions of readers.

“My guess is that most people in America don’t hitchhike and don’t pick up hitchhikers,” he says. “So, out of curiosity, they may buy it.”

Anyone who is interested in Shey’s writings or his book can find out more on his Web site [Walls of Jericho] http://www.wallsofjericho.50megs.com.

“If this does sell, maybe that’s my door opening to get off the road and settle down,” Shey says. “Maybe I’ll keep writing or something.”

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“There are chance meetings with strangers that interest us from the first moment, before a word is spoken.”

–Fyodor Dostoyevsky

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Posted March 17, 2013 by Tim Shey

25 responses to “A Thumb and a Prayer

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  1. I’m not Christian. But brother, that was one of the most crazy and uplifting stories I’ve ever had the privilege of hearing. Thank you. I will definitely buy your book if I can get it in the U.K. I’ve got something to say about the creeping death sweeping over this world and I’m trying to allude to it a little in my blog which should be finished in a fortnight. Your words suggest that you might have the ears to understand it and I’d be very grateful if you could check it out in three weeks or so. Your words are inspiring. Thank you.

  2. Shaun: Thank you for your comment and I am glad that you liked the article.

    When you get your blog up and running, just leave a message here and a link to your blog.

  3. I’ve picked up several hitchhikers over the years. Some of them were nutty as a happy squirrel, some of them were upbeat and cheerful, some of them were just plain weird. Every one of them blessed me in some way. To me, the Golden Rule doesn’t get any simpler than picking up hitchhikers. I really enjoyed reading about you, Tim.

  4. Thanks, Doc. I have met a lot of great people on the road. Everyday something different happens, the Lord shows me something/reveals to me something that I need to know.

  5. hey tim, Joe here in Dubois, found your page, nice, I tried to catch up with you a while back when you were camping in the sage behind our house along the river walk. Best wishes…..Joe

    • Good to hear from you, Joe. I haven’t hitchhiked through Dubois, WY since July or August. I just got a ride from Richfield to Idaho Falls, Idaho this morning. I should be heading to Montana after I leave IF. Take care.

  6. safe travels…>I was taking out some cabinets from the old grade school on the hill and thought about you today,…….thinking this would be a good place to spend a night! Joe

  7. Hello Tim Shey, I happened upon your site just now. I too did a similar thing which lasted for about 15 years. I also felt as if I was protected and provided for throughout my travels. Perhaps someday we can share some stories? Take care, Richard owl Mirror

    Richard Owl Mirror
  8. You are a brave man to hitchhike. I remember as a kid in the early 70’s my father would stop and pick up hitchhikers if they were on the highway we used to travel to town. They always seemed like nice people. I enjoyed reading about your experiences above and congratulate you on putting your faith in God and trusting Him to put the right kind of people in your path! Thank you for sharing about your experiences and the power of God at work in each of the circumstances you found yourself in. Truly inspiring!

  9. Lorlyn: I didn’t think that I would still be hitchhiking at the age of 53, but here I am. It (hitchhiking) is God’s will for my life until I settle down some place.

  10. Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my Saturday Snippets post. God’s blessings on your journey!

  11. Sherrey: Thanks for putting the quote by A.W. Tozer on your blog; it is very inspiring.

    “Sometimes when we get overwhelmed we forget how big God is.” –A.W. Tozer

  12. That’s awesome man. Sounds like you’ve had some wild experiences (like finding yourself in a backcountry cult lol). The one about the suicidal guy was especially cool. I would definitely like to check out your book someday.

  13. Pilgrimsmap: Since you are from Montana, my first book, High Plains Drifter, is at the library in Belgrade, West Yellowstone, Forsyth and Columbus, Montana. My second book, The First Time I Rode a Freight Train & other hitchhiking stories is at the library in Hamilton, Montana.

  14. Wow awesome. I’m looking forward to reading more of your adventures Tim

  15. We were getting lots of wayfaring hitchikers and travelers through our neck of the desert which most of the locals were very hostile toward, and now suddenly, this summer, they’ve just disappeared. I think the local police have been running them off or something…even worse, arresting them. I have been praying for a homeless shelter to be started up here. We sure need one…there are a lot of vacant and empty buildings that could be used. I wish I were younger and in better heath; I’d tackle the job myself
    Lord bless you Tim

  16. While traveling in Oregon on a trip out West in September 2016, I was fortunate enough to pick up Tim. I have not seen many hitch hikers as I live in Virginia. I was glad to have someone to converse with and Tim shared his story with me.

    Tim: I made it to California and am now back with my family in Virginia. Thanks for the memories. I tell everyone that I meet that you were one of the highlights of my trip. Be safe. God bless you. Mike.

    • Hey, Mike: Good to hear from you. Thanks again for the ride and the great conversation. After you dropped me off, I walked about a mile and this van full of people picked me up and took me to Lakeview, Oregon. I camped out in the park in Lakeview that night and then the same van picked me up the next day. I made it to my friends’ place later that day.

      I hope you had a great trip back to Virginia. Take care.

  17. I thoroughly enjoyed Thumb and a Prayer! I haven’t been driving cross-country in 25 years, but I always enjoyed taking the off-highway roads, stopping in country towns and talking with the locals. Picked up a few hitchhikers and at times, I was the hitchhiker needing a ride. I like the way you described your education – I too, was thinking about politics or law after my undergraduate, but I think I was unfit as I had some moral compass. Keep sharing the Word, keep the Faith.

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  19. You HITCHHIKERS, and PROMOTERS OF HITCHHIKING and ALL those who PICK UP HITCHHIKERS ARE OUT OF YOUR MINDS ! I really CANNOT believe that IN THIS DAY AND AGE ( 2018 ) I come across A WEBSITE LIKE THIS HERE and PROMOTERS OF HITCHHIKING ! We are NOT living in the 1940’s and 1950’s anymore ! This really just BLOWS MY MIND right now !

    Not even in the 1960’s and 1970’s was it SAFE to HITCHHIKE anymore ! Do you know about the TRUE CRIME story of THE GIRL IN THE BOX ( they even about 1 or 2 years ago MADE IT INTO A NEW MOVIE for LIFETIME MOVIE tv channel ) it happened around the 60’s or 70’s, she ended up like that BECAUSE SHE HITCHHIKED !


    I really do not know WHAT KIND OF A WORLD ( including THE USA of course ) THAT YOU THINK THAT WE LIVE IN !

    FOR A FACT there are SERIAL KILLERS out there ( the authorities suspect that alot or most of them ARE TRUCKERS,they talked about this on a TV episode, THERE ARE AT ALL TIMES SERIAL KILLERS ON THE LOOSE AND HUNTING OUT THERE,LAW ENFORCEMENT claims that ), SATANISTS out there ( who always will need another human being for their next HUMAN SACRIFICE ), RAPISTS out there, ISIS out there, other kinds of JIHADIS out there, ALOT OF MALES WHO ARE INTO PORNOGRAPHY DAY IN AND DAY OUT out there EVERYWHERE, and SEX TRAFFICKERS ( SEX TRAFFICKING and SEXUAL SLAVERY is BIGGER THEN DRUGS by now ! ) and also HUMAN TRAFFICKING for other purposes like for ORGAN HARVESTING.



    Also there are really CANNIBALS out there too. Here is some PROOF for you : Look up the CANNIBAL CLUB website to SEE FOR YOURSELF what we really have going on IN THE USA by now!

    ALL of you HITCHHIKERS and HITCHHIKING PROMOTORS ARE REALLY OUT OF YOUR DARNED MINDS ! I really don’t know what to say anymore !

    And on TV they always tell us NEVER to HITCHHIKE and NEVER to PICK UP ANY HITCHHIKERS EVER !

    I’m A FEMALE and right now SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH MY CAR AGAIN that needs to be CHECKED OUT and IF NEED BE ( AND IT LOOKS LIKE IT ) IT’S GOING TO NEED TO BE FIXED and I CAN’T GO ANYWHERE AND GET ANYTHING DONE UNTIL IT IS and this is AFFECTING MY LIFE IN A MAJOR/SERIOUS WAY RIGHT NOW TOO, so should I really START HITCHHIKING around here to everywhere I need to get to ?!!! Should I really go stand myself on the side of our major road here with MY THUMB out and SAY A PRAYER in order to get to where I really need to get to ? ( if THE PEOPLE I LIVE WITH would SEE/CATCH ME doing that THEY WILL GET ON ME ABOUT IT and tell me NOT TO DO IT ANYMORE as long as I am still living with them )

    • MMaAry: There is a lot of fear in your life. Surrender your life to Jesus Christ and follow Him.

      I am hitchhiking because the Lord told me to. I am living in the powerful Presence of God everyday, so I don’t fear the things that you mentioned in your comment. Perfect love casts out fear.

  20. Be reading up on your blessed journey. We haven’t seen or heard from you for a few years. Stop by in Nebraska always welcome here. God Bless.

    • Hope u are doing ok. God bless u. Stop back in Nebraska sometime. Reichert’s.

      • Janet: Good to hear from you. I am no longer hitchhiking. I quit hitchhiking in January of 2020. I am working for a friend in Idaho. It has been a number of years since I hitchhiked through Nebraska. God bless you and your family.

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